In praise of older women.

[Leo]

This is just my experience, so don't read too much deep psychological significance into it, but I find most older women really nice, and many older blokes to be miserable gits (present company excluded, of course, so don't anyone here take offence, please. http://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/innocent/innocent0007.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net))

Teen chicks look great and are hott, but they act like you are after something (even when you aren't) if you are nice to them. But older women are almost always gracious and charming, and appreciative of any little things a guy does for them.

Young guys act OK most of the time (especially if you show them you can't be pushed around) but older guys - like in their thirties and forties - always seem to resent teen guys. Like they engage in put-downs, and find any fault they can. I dunno why. http://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/confused/confused0036.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net)

Whereas older women always seem to find some little way they can compliment you - like saying how nice your manners are, or how well you speak. I think they have much more self-confidence than most older guys.

OK, I'll go and hide now while all the older guys here chuck a wobbly. http://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/scared/scared0016.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net)

[ECW]

This is exactly what I have found to be the case. Older women are the absolute best. I would not give a woman younger than 30 time of day unless she was especially sweet (and those are rare). Leo hits a home run.

[jafar00]

Now listen here you young whipper snapper! ... grumble... why I oughta teach yer a lesson with my walking stick..... :D

Seriously though, I agree wholeheartedly. Older women are the backbone of the family. Old Aunts and grandmothers can always be counted on to keep things together while the cantankerous old gits like us grumble in the corner with our pipes and receding hairlines.

[tecoyah]

I also must agree, I am just now returning to the "Dating" scene and have absolutely no desire to spend my energies on that cute little redhead smiling from the corner unless I need an Ego Boost for some reason. Thus far anyone I decide to spend quality time with is at least 30, and preferable 40.
I find the more mature woman more pleasing to the eye, and the mind in every way. I played the games when I was younger, and no one ever wins...time to have fun.

[Sirk]

30 is "older"? I thought he was talking about like 50's. :sadly:

[ECW]

30 is "older"? I thought he was talking about like 50's. :sadly:

I'm talking even older...

http://www.seniorcitizen.com/wp-content/sophialoren.jpg

[Osborn F. Enready]

Interesting thread. ;)

I am going to say something, and hope I don't have to pay for it with any of the fine females I know on here, or anyone else for that matter.....

I am a 36 year old male, married and divorced by age 21, no kids by choice. ( I am not anti-kid, and I actually enjoy the thought of being a father if I met the right woman, and the circumstances were acceptable, but it is not a make or break deal for me.)

I find age has little to do with anything regarding "what I like", other than appearances.
I tend to be drawn to younger women at first glance (lets face it, physical appearance is a part of our sexual chemistry and younger women usually, not always, make the strongest visual impression.... its hard not to with the glow of youth and mental image of being "less spoiled" by bad lovers, bad ideas, bad habits), but most of that evaporates after conversation starts 90% of the time. I place equal value on mind, spirit and body regarding what I am looking for in a female. I have dated 18 year olds while in my 30's, and dated 30+ year olds when I was 21. I find age plays little role in my choices or preference, other than I have a no-jail bait policy... ;) I am open to dating women with kids, its a reality thats pretty common at my age obviously, but not a priority on my list.

I personally am a real sucker for a woman who knows when to be a "lady", and when not to, as well as when to expect her man to act like a "gentlemen", and when not to.

To use an old cliche', "I like a lady in public, a tramp in the bedroom, and a loyal confidant and friend in all things life throws upon us".

I am a gentleman in public, most of the time, unless provoked. Not because its an act, but because its how I was raised, and I respect common courtesy. I was also raised to be smart enough to know when its time to be a gentleman, and time to be a rabble rouser or what some would consider to be just plain rabble. I can trade wit and intellect with the best, as well as I am not afraid to resort to fisticuffs if necessary and situationally proper. I rarely if ever judge a book by its cover, a person by their first impression, or a job based on its pay.

I like women who are sexually as well as intellectually liberated, that demand to be satisfied by their lover equally as their lover expects to be satisfied by them, both sexually and intellectually. I respect women, ladies even more, and my lady the most of all when I have one, and I expect the same in return. I prefer monogamous relationships, but am open minded on all things that respect volitional choice and individual rights. In truth, I am an old school romantic, prefer to shower my special someone with prose, poetry and the best love I have to offer... but that takes respect and trust that builds over time with someone, not based on first impressions.

I have been swept off my feet by a womans looks as well as by a womans mind, but have yet to meet one who has in my opinion "the best of both worlds", though I am aware of a few prospects seemingly with those qualities......

In the end, I take comfort that all people, men and women, are individuals and no two are exactly alike. I am single by choice based on situation and priorities, not preference, so the thought comforts me as I realize I am but one of many fish in the sea. I do however look forward to eventually finding the person that completes me....when my situation allows me to follow up on that desire and enjoy it for what its worth, and deserves.

In the end, I would say good OP, though I resist the blanket labelling. I think the bulk of differences we see in age are part and parcel our perspective and experience playing tricks on us and our natural competition factor for love, life, prosperity and happiness.

Glad to see a change of venue for the conversation to take however...... ;)

[Osborn F. Enready]

Sophia Loren is a fine example of a stunning older woman......I think Raquel Welch is also.

[Sirk]

I'm talking even older...

http://www.seniorcitizen.com/wp-content/sophialoren.jpg

What about women who haven't had work done? :embarrased:

[Buck Laser]

My wife is a year and a half older than me and it's worked well for 50 years. My son's wife is three years older than he is, and they're approaching 25 years. My mother's second husband was ten years younger than she. I'd say it's worked pretty well for my family.

[ECW]

What about women who haven't had work done? :embarrased:

I don't mind a nip here and a tuck there if it makes the woman feel better about herself but if you think Sophia is guilty of a serious overhaul I could send you a picture of her in her glory days that would suggest otherwise.

It's the same for men who throw on a bit of hair color or grow back a little hair where it had long since gone to make themselves look a bit more appealing. What isn't acceptable is this crap:

Before:
http://www.sdyouth.org/Joan%20Rivers.jpg

After:
http://www.smh.com.au/ffxImage/urlpicture_id_1045330465705_2003/02/16/ent_joanrivers1702.jpg

[Wndrtch]

I'm talking even older...

http://www.seniorcitizen.com/wp-content/sophialoren.jpg

I love Sophie, but my favorit is Jamie Lee Curtis.

http://i00.rnhh.de/uk/fd/inc/realgen/ssi/FreedomShowbizImages/51/05/bigimage_10583.jpg

http://cache.daylife.com/imageserve/0bEf8G613389x/340x.jpg

[4Reaganomics]

I'm 20 so I am more than into and enjoy milfs, but I can't do the whole grandmom thing yet

might never be able to

[4Reaganomics]

http://www.exposay.com/celebrity-photos/cindy-crawford-runway-for-life-benefiting-st-jude-childrens-research-hospital-1EzCpt.jpg

http://www.autenticoecuatoriano.com/wp-content/uploads/demi_moore.jpg

http://www.celebritysmackblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/09/locklear-1.jpg

all over 40 and ridiculously hot, keep pics coming fellas

[Osborn F. Enready]

Sirk said:
What about women who haven't had work done?

I prefer women who don't have work done, especially those who don't HAVE to wear make-up. (for their own security)

[Professor]

I don't know that you can or should assign good behavior to an age group. A few weeks ago I was in a car accident, the other driver was a man in his sixties; his behavior was horrible, name calling, he sat on the hood of my car, I had to call the emergency police despite it being just a rear end. And I don't think that was an anomaly. I'm often told I'm "wise" "mature" or "well-behaved" for my age. One of the dangers in saying older women are the backbone of society is inferring that we can do whatever we want until a certain age, then manners and responsibility kick in.

[Stoner]

In praise of older women.

Yeah, MILFs rock. Then again so do the 18 year olds. I've never discriminated over the fuzzy lap flounder.

[Comrade]

This is just my experience, so don't read too much deep psychological significance into it, but I find most older women really nice, and many older blokes to be miserable gits (present company excluded, of course, so don't anyone here take offence, please. That, mate, is because it is a scientifically provwn face that men generally find things less funny as they age, whereas women stay the same. It's generally more silly things or slapstick, or even simple satire that men find less funny as they age, indeed tell a joke to a 20 year old and he will laugh, tell the same joke to him as a 60 year old (pretending you didn't tell him the first time) and he will laugh less. It just happens. So it can be axpected that older women have a better sense of humour - by comparison...


Teen chicks look great and are hott, but they act like you are after something (even when you aren't) if you are nice to them. But older women are almost always gracious and charming, and appreciative of any little things a guy does for them.
Thats because teen chicks still have one thing, and only one thing on their mind when looking for guys; sex/fun times. Us lot are always out to enjoy our youth, and even if you say 'oh no but I'm looking for a relationship' at the end of the day with teens...even the chaste lot, its still a more physical thing. Older ladies however, are looking more at the long term. They are more relationship and comfort based, and even those that are still very sexually active look for a more mature man to have fun with, because experiance and maturity (even in a younger bloke) are manifestations of her latent desire for stability.

Young guys act OK most of the time (especially if you show them you can't be pushed around) but older guys - like in their thirties and forties - always seem to resent teen guys. Like they engage in put-downs, and find any fault they can. I dunno why.
Thats because the 20's are a mans sexual peak, and no matter how hard any guy trys, its all downhill from there. So thats why 30+ men resent -29 men, because they will be better in bed and they know it, because they were. Its just a psychological fact thats engineered into us. I think it's meant to kick in so it leave more room for the younger men to sow their seed to produce a better next generation. Its all caveman stuff...


Whereas older women always seem to find some little way they can compliment you - like saying how nice your manners are, or how well you speak. I think they have much more self-confidence than most older guys.

OK, I'll go and hide now while all the older guys here chuck a wobbly.
Thats because they've been there, done him, got that STD, had this many kids, done that many men, and have had how many relationships, and know how men work. They know compliments about the small things are better, they have earnt their dignity, and are not as sexually interested, and can afford to either take their time or just make friends (most obviously with much older women or married women). Depending on the woman of course, women generally age more gracefully as they age, men dwell on their youth, women look to the future. Its the way we work dude.

...and all that from the top of my head...damn I need a beer....

[ilikegw]

This topic looks familiar Leo... are you trying to pick up some chicks?!?!!? :madlaugh:

[Leo]

LOL! No, just getting a perspective from different people. :love:

[Stoner]

If it keeps up this will turn into a dating website.

I've already proclaimed myself Winnie the Pimp. "Bitch better have my honey!

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2343/2215279314_61931572b3_o.jpg

[preservanation]

http://dvdtoile.com/ARTISTES/7/7389.jpg

http://perso.wanadoo.es/maxiruiz/marielH.jpg



http://www.coolestmag.com/celeb/Mariel_Hemingway/big/Mariel_Hemingway8.jpg

http://revart.blogs.com/minister_of_rants/images/movie_mariel_hemingway.jpeg

[ECW]

Well said, sir, well said.

[Comrade]

*sigh*

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1335/972715526_ab3f235351.jpg?v=0

[ilikegw]

*Thinks Comrade has used all his printer ink today.....

[Stoner]

*Thinks Comrade has used all his printer ink today.....

I bet there's not an inch of wall exposed in his bathroom.

[Comrade]

*blushes* ...or bedroom....

[IndieVisible]

Older women are great! Until you yourself get too old, then you go back to younger girls.

The thing I like about older women is they are more challenging. You need more then good looks, nice car and a 8-Ball to impress them or get them. An older woman you need to work, like a crafty salesmen trying to close the deal only in stages. First you sell her that your not another dickhead, then you sell her that you really do like to listen to her gibberish, which really isn't jibberish and can be very interesting as older woman are also more educated and intelligent. Next you sell her that you care about details, are open minded. Next you sell her that your a jack of all trades handy man! Also, you must love kids, cats, and dogs, some times even birds! I love the challenge! It's a great sport.

Younger girls are just too easy, but the snobs can be a challenge too. I love the chase, it's the best part of the game leading to the prize. I must be honest. I have met some serious female players of this sport! That is always a pleasure!

[Stoner]

Older woman know how to kegel. I was 18 when I discovered the joy of that little trick. She was 43. Almost brought a tear to my eye.

[Comrade]

Older woman know how to kegel. I was 18 when I discovered the joy of that little trick. She was 43. Almost brought a tear to my eye.

Kegel? is that slang for something...I know we use different phrases on different sides of the pond...

[Osborn F. Enready]

Kegel exercise....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise

[PatrickHenry]

I like 'em all.

A sweet nature is what really appeals.

Intellect can be a problem if you spend any time with someone. I hate being bored by irrelevant BS.

Women are endlessly fascinatin'.

[Muser]

What about women who haven't had work done? :embarrased:

Sophia is a stunning example of either, a) growing old naturally and beautifully, or b) very little work done, and done in a manner to intentionally facilitate a "growing old gracefully" look (no fake, plastic, extremely-pulled-back look). She's absolutely marvelous and one of my idols.

As an "older woman" in my early 40s, I appreciate the sentiments expressed in the thread - 3 cheers for men who appreciate something more than just hard-bodied, perfectly-formed gorgeous young female airheaded twits! :clapper:

[Stoner]

Kegel? is that slang for something

Dude, go out tonight to a bar, snag a MILF, take her home and ask her to show you what kegeling is.

You'll be quite pleased with the result.

[Buck Laser]

Sophia is a stunning example of either, a) growing old naturally and beautifully, or b) very little work done, and done in a manner to intentionally facilitate a "growing old gracefully" look (no fake, plastic, extremely-pulled-back look). She's absolutely marvelous and one of my idols.

As an "older woman" in my early 40s, I appreciate the sentiments expressed in the thread - 3 cheers for men who appreciate something more than just hard-bodied, perfectly-formed gorgeous young female airheaded twits! :clapper:
Sorry Muser, but I still think of women in their early 40s as sweet young things. I hope you don't find that sexist.

My wife and I are in our mid-70s, and we have the wrinkles, sags, and gray har to show for it. But when I look at my wife while she's still asleep in the morning, she looks as beautiful as she did when she was 25. The sags show when she sits upright, but the real beauty is still there. And no, she did not pay me to say that. I wake up thankful every day that she chose to spend her life with me.

[4Reaganomics]

http://www.datingtheworld.com/images/lucia.jpg

This might be a little too old, but she'll probably give it up for 50 bucks

just sayin...

[Stoner]

I wake up thankful every day that she chose to spend her life with me.

*shudders*

I'm violently opposed to any relationship that lasts more than 45 minutes at a time.

BTW, whose the MILF in pink? Not bad.

[sam]

Older women are great! Until you yourself get too old, then you go back to younger girls.

The thing I like about older women is they are more challenging. You need more then good looks, nice car and a 8-Ball to impress them or get them. An older woman you need to work, like a crafty salesmen trying to close the deal only in stages. First you sell her that your not another dickhead, then you sell her that you really do like to listen to her gibberish, which really isn't jibberish and can be very interesting as older woman are also more educated and intelligent. Next you sell her that you care about details, are open minded. Next you sell her that your a jack of all trades handy man! Also, you must love kids, cats, and dogs, some times even birds! I love the challenge! It's a great sport.

Younger girls are just too easy, but the snobs can be a challenge too. I love the chase, it's the best part of the game leading to the prize. I must be honest. I have met some serious female players of this sport! That is always a pleasure!
:worship:

You da man Indie!!!

[Muser]

Sorry Muser, but I still think of women in their early 40s as sweet young things. I hope you don't find that sexist.

Not at all! I'll take any and all references to being a "sweet young" thing[1]. :peace:

My wife and I are in our mid-70s, and we have the wrinkles, sags, and gray har to show for it. But when I look at my wife while she's still asleep in the morning, she looks as beautiful as she did when she was 25. The sags show when she sits upright, but the real beauty is still there. And no, she did not pay me to say that. I wake up thankful every day that she chose to spend her life with me.Y'all have been married a long time - congratulations, Buck! Staying happily married that long is truly an accomplishment to be proud of, especially in this day and age.

[1] Though of course I'll disagree :nana:

[Muser]

*shudders*

I'm violently opposed to any relationship that lasts more than 45 minutes at a time.

45 minutes? That's like 15 separate relationships for you, innit, Stoner? :madlaugh:

[Stoner]

45 minutes? That's like 15 separate relationships for you, innit, Stoner? :madlaugh:

You're a sarcastic asshole like me. I like it. Shit, I'd buy you a beer.

[Muser]

You're a sarcastic asshole like me. I like it. Shit, I'd buy you a beer.

Make it a Grolsch or a Bass and you're on!

So. Whatcha wearin'?

[Osborn F. Enready]

Muser just weakened my defense to Grolsch last time we talked about this....

I had to buy some last weekend.... ;)

[Stoner]

I'm a sucker for Red Stripe. Can't explain it.

I'm drinking some shit now I haven't had in a while. It's called Flying Dog. Good shit.

I am so fucking trashed. I drank Long Islands All day and now I'm on the Road Dog/Flying Dog shit. Yummy.

[Muser]

Muser just weakened my defense to Grolsch last time we talked about this....

I had to buy some last weekend.... ;)

LOL! :clapper: Awesome. I'm so proud of you for making the right decision. A pic of you drinking it would be great.

[Muser]

I'm a sucker for Red Stripe. Can't explain it.

I'm drinking some shit now I haven't had in a while. It's called Flying Dog. Good shit.

I am so fucking trashed. I drank Long Islands All day and now I'm on the Road Dog/Flying Dog shit. Yummy.

Ya know...if you would've given us a heads-up, we could've played the game where every time you cuss we all have to take a drink. But don't worry about our good time, ya selfish bastard.

[Stoner]

Ya know...if you would've given us a heads-up, we could've played the game where every time you cuss we all have to take a drink. But don't worry about our good time, ya selfish bastard.

Man, I have such a foul fucking mouth if I had to drink every time I swore I would be flat-lined from alcohol poisoning in 10 minutes.

[Muser]

Man, I have such a foul fucking mouth if I had to drink every time I swore I would be flat-lined from alcohol poisoning in 10 minutes.

That might be a contributing factor to your 3-minute relationships. :nana:

Hey waitaminute....this thread's about praising older women. I patiently await the praising, fawning and presentation of gifts.

[Osborn F. Enready]

Muser said:
I patiently await the praising, fawning and presentation of gifts.

I reserve those things for personal encounters....

I'll work on that pic.... ;)

[Stoner]

Hey waitaminute....this thread's about praising older women. I patiently await the praising, fawning and presentation of gifts.

You put on a red thong and pasties and I'll give you all the "praise" you can handle.

[Muser]

<looks at watch> Sure, why not? I have 3 minutes to spare. ;)

[Stoner]

<looks at watch> Sure, why not? I have 3 minutes to spare. ;)

I'll give you the best 7 best seconds of your life.

[jafar00]

You put on a red thong and pasties and I'll give you all the "praise" you can handle.

Red Thong?

http://www.caririsflipflops.com/crystal/CrystalCariris/ladybug.jpg

Pasties?

http://www.pastyman.com/images/large/pasty.jpg

That would be interesting to see :D

[Leo]

Red Thong?

http://www.caririsflipflops.com/crystal/CrystalCariris/ladybug.jpg

Pasties?

http://www.pastyman.com/images/large/pasty.jpg

That would be interesting to see :D

Ratz! You just beat me to it. I was Googling for pictures of Cornish pasties. :madlaugh: