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Alonzo
05-07-2008, 05:23 PM
Mother's Day will be bittersweet in some segments of our nation this year.

For some women, there will be no flowers, no chocolates—just the painful memory of a child lost forever to abortion.

It may seem incongruous to talk about abortion in connection with Mother's Day. After all, this is a holiday meant to celebrate the amazing, life-affirming gift of motherhood. Yet, in our schizophrenic society, it's possible that some women will go in to facilities to have abortions on Saturday and be expected to join in the celebrations of Mother's Day on Sunday.

I've seen the anguished face of a woman reliving the moment of her abortion. It's a portrait of pain that is indescribable in its torment. At times like that, there will be no abortion facility personnel around to hold the woman's hand, to treat her post-traumatic stress disorder, to bring her healing and hope.

And abortion is certainly not a rare occurrence in our nation. An estimated 1.2 million abortions occur each year in the U.S. Since 1973, the year that Roe versus Wade was decided, an estimated 50 million unborn children have died as a result of legal abortion.

Abortion has become a major public health problem, in terms of its effects on the health of women. Study after study shows the devastating impact that abortion can have on the physical and psychological well-being of America's female citizens. For instance, one study shows that one in five women who have had abortions will suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder—the illness most commonly linked with soldiers returning from the battlefront. Research has also shown that post-abortive women are likely to have worse health overall than other women.

As many as 60 percent of women who have had abortions think about suicide. Abortion has been linked with a two-fold increased risk of alcohol abuse, and women who abort are twice as likely to become heavy smokers. Yet, when was the last time you saw a local news segment focused on the harmful health effects of abortion? Have you ever?

Part of the problem is the disinformation campaign waged by the abortion industry. To hear abortion providers tell it, you would think that there are no side-effects from abortion at all. Planned Parenthood, the nation's largest abortion operation, claims abortion is safe but available medical research contradicts such a contention.

The wall of silence surrounding abortion can cause a woman to suffer alone. Following an abortion, there is no wake, no funeral, no graveside service. Women are expected to tough it out in isolation, with no one around to join them in their mourning. The grieving process is heightened by the fact that this was a death which could have been prevented.

The pro-life movement is reaching out to women who regret their abortions. Retreat programs such as Rachel's Vineyard help post-abortive women to cope with their losses. Women can visit www.rachelsvineyard.org and be put in touch with someone who can share their pain. Women can reclaim their motherhood, naming the babies lost to abortion. They can find consolation in the forgiveness of an all-loving God.

This Mother's Day, please remember those mothers who never got to see their children's faces…those who were coerced into abortion…and those who chose abortion based on misunderstandings and misinformation. Their losses are deep, and their emotional scars can last a lifetime.

http://lifenews.com/nat3910.html

PatrickHenry
05-07-2008, 07:39 PM
Do you have a comment, Alonzo?

I would like to hear the perfect liberal's views on some of the statements in the article.

How do you spin it?

Anyhow, Thanks Mom! You're gone now, but I know you were disappointed to be pregnant with me! Though you were married to my father, you didn't want another child. Thanks for not eliminating me before I had a chance to be born...

I know I was inconvenient. I know you struggled to provide for me after leaving my Dad. I hope that I have been worthy of your sacrifice, and I will try to do good every way I can...

You were the best, Mom! :bye:

Alonzo
05-07-2008, 10:26 PM
Do you have a comment, Alonzo?

I would like to hear the perfect liberal's views on some of the statements in the article.

How do you spin it?


It's life news, the studies they quote on these issues are almost always either without credibility (from places like the Family Research Institute), or without proper context, such as when the omit info on the mothers beliefs on abortion or her state of mind going into it. For example, women having an abortion after rape, or who have a history of being, or are being, sexually or physically abused are more likely to suffer emotional consequences, as are women who, either themselves or the people they deal with, view abortion as immoral. In these women than are often difficulties in decision making (with the abused ones anyway) or moral conflicts they had going in. But, at the same time, many times these women would not have fared well, psychology, raising a child either.

The suggestion that abortion is dangerous to ones health, given the obvious alternative of having the baby (and the risk giving birth presents), is without merit and completely false.

But, as for the sentiments of lost "children", it's just anti-choice propaganda.

BoogyMan
05-07-2008, 11:39 PM
For some women, there will be no flowers, no chocolates—just the painful memory of a child lost forever to abortion.

Children at NOT lost to abortion, they are tossed away IN abortion. Let us be quite clear.

PostmodernProphet
05-07-2008, 11:57 PM
every Mother's Day my daughter makes special note of thanks to her birth mother for NOT aborting her....